>The Collaboration against Abuse, Neglect, & Exploitation had a comments section I emailed the following.
My Mother was forced against her will in a nursing home in Hillsboro Ohio by her guardian. The guardian and the social worker conspired to hold Mom prisoner without medical necessity in 2007. There are pictures of Mom’s abuse at the nursing home and tape recordings where Mom and I were intentionally harassed and bullied by the social worker without reason or cause per the guardians orders. This was done to force me out of the nursing home to stop me from advocating Mom’s rights to return home. Mom has been rushed to emergency numerous times because of the deliberate neglect and abuse. The guardian is insulated here because he has law enforcement credentials. The social worker has made sure there is a clinical report in Mom’s case file stating she needs 24/7 care and needs to stay at the nursing home. But the social worker failed to reveal to the Court and the Guardian Ad Litem Mom had a caregiver that stayed with her at home for years and she was only in the nursing home for respite care. Mom has almost died at the Hillsboro nursing home because of abuse and neglect the social worker and the guardian has allowed. The judicial court system refuses to investigate my complaints and completely relies on the guardian and social worker reports. The judge refused to hear my evidence at the guardianship hearing of my Mother’s abuse and negligence at the nursing home.
Elaine following is Mom’s story…
SYNOPSIS CASE HISTORY OF MY MOTHER
Following the death of my step-father years ago, my step brother, began to excercise undue influence of our mother. Sadly, my step-brother is a bully. He is verbally assultive, abusive, threatening, intimidating, demeaning and controlling. He has been in a marriage strained by money concerns for many years. In or about the early 2000’s and while separated from his wife, he acknowledged to me that his wife has an insatiable lust for money, and , a gambling problem. In order that my step-brother maintain this lifestyle, I honestly believe he has financially exploited our mother for her monies an property.
Following dad’s death mom collected his life insurance, and likewise sold off some ninety-two [92] acres of the farm, keeping for herself twelve-plus [12 +] acres.
In due time my step-brother coerced Mom into co-signing for him on a Fifty-Eight Thousand Dollar [$58,000.00] “open end mortgage note”, which I have evidence of.
Weeks later my step-brother coerced mom into selling him eleven [11] acres of her land for One-Dollar [$1.00] which I have evidence of. Soon a new trailer home and a very large pole barn occupied the land.
By 2002 it was obvious that mom was failing mentally, yet my step-brother coerced mom into signing a durable power of attorney which named my step-brother as mom’s fiduciary. It was at this time in history that the conflict began to escalate, and the secrets became more secretive. In sum, my step-brother’s arrogance would not tolerate being questioned and his outward belligerence, and, verbal and phyusical assults, were his defenses.
Mom was seeing her doctor and the prescriptions soon had stablilized her mentally. On July 17, 2003, mom directed me to fax her letter to my step-brother’s attorney, stating, mom wanted me to be Assistant POA, [I have a copy of the letter] On July 18, 2003, my step-brother, issued his letter letter in reply, stating he was the Only POA. [I have that letter] On July 23, 2003, mom responded with another letter expressing her wishes [again] and confirmed she wanted me to also be POA. [I have that letter] all of which my step-brother fails and refuses to honor.
In or about late September early October 2003, my step-brother put mom’s home up for sale. On October 5, 2003, mom wrote my step-brother and advised him that she did not wish to sell the house. [I have that letter] but that did not stop my step-brother. Soon mom’s Highland county home was sold [$110,000.00] and my step-brother forced mom against her will into a Butler County nursing home.
During the period of time mom was held against her will in the Butler County nursing home, my step-brother was representing to the nursing home that he was mom’s appointed guardian. It was at this point that poa documents, believed to have been altered,, just showed up with language concerning guardianship. No court appointement, just bald assertions. Nevertheless, emotions are high, phone calls and personal meetings are contentious, and my step-brother is demanding of the nursing staff that no one be allowed to visit mom. In sum, the mess was completely out of control, all because of my step-brother and whatever it is he is hiding…likely what he has done with the money.
In time the situation prompted my older sister to contact the Cincinnati Ombudsman who investigated and reported to my sister that she had spoken to my step-brother and advised him that what he had done, and was doing, was not legal. [ I have a Notarized Statement of confirmation by my sister, who is legally blind] The Cincinnati Ombudsman provided copy of the “guardianship document” found in the file at the Butler County nursing home. [I have the copy]
Needlessly, my mother suffered terribly while at the Butler County nursing home and in 2004 I intervened and rushed mom to “The Regional Middletown Hospital”. My step-brother had given the nursing home a DNR directive and openly expressed his concern that “calling an ambulance was too expensive”. While at the Butler County nursing home mom had been rushed to the E.R. on several occasion; she suffered several infections and a kidney falilure, substantial weight loss; she often was left to sit for hours in her own urine and feces; she was found on the floor with a severly bleeding head wound; and my step-brother saw to it that mom was isolated from my sister and I, and all mom’s friends and spiritual associations. In sum, by the time this saga ran its course mom was freed from the Butler County nursing home, and I took her to live with me in Hillsboro Ohio.
For the next three years, all was comparatively quiet except for the occasional heated phone call, email, or personal encounter with my step-brother. Mom and I lived in our apartment in hillsboro and got along just fine. I work in the elder – care/home-care industry and so taking care of mom daily was quite natural for me. During these years mom was healthy and happy. Then, it came to be that I needed a surgery and in planning for surgery it was decided “respite-care” would serve well for mom while I recovered for a few weeks. Mom’s “Passport Case manager” was part of this planning.
While I lay in the hospital post-op, I received a phone call informing me that my step-brother was at the apartment packing mom’s things and terminating mom’s rental agreement. My step-brother convinced the apartment manager that mom would not be returning to the apartment. My step-brother changed the locks and evicted mom and I both. [I Have a letter from the GUARDIAN AD LITEM stating, Mom’s wanted to continue her lease at the apartment]. This was early June 2007, and my step-brother has held mom against her will in a Hillsboro nursing home on medicaid, ever since, absent medical necessity….and again, isolated from her family, friends and, her spiritual associations. It is 2003 all over again.
In November 2007 my step-brother was appointed “guardian of the person” for mom. This appointment is premised upon the nomination found in the poa document which I honestly believe is an altered and forged document. [ I have Mom’s medical records which prove Mom was incapacitated at the time she signed the poa.]
I do not believe it is medically necessary that mom be held in a nursing home. A least restrictive environment is available right here in my home. It may be convenient for my step-brother to keep mom in a nursing home, but, mom need not live the last of her years locked away in a home, isolated from family and friends that love and care for her.
For nearly twenty years my step-brother has exercised his influence over and held direct control and possession of all of mom’s financial resources and estate properties. He is not a “court appointed estate guardian” and he has never, ever accounted for or disclosed what monies and properties belonging to mom have come into his possession and control. My concern is obvious – he is under no supervision whatsoever, he has posted no bond, and, I do not believe there is a bone of good-faith in his entire body, the man is heartless.
Since being evicted by my step-brother in 2007 I have lived less than ten-minutes from where my mother is being held against her will. My step-brother forbids mom and I visiting and I fear for being in the physical presence of my step-brother. He has been violent toward both my elder sister and I in the past.
My step-brother refused to follow my Mother’s wishes but instead, inflicted His wishes on my Mother to abuse, neglect and exploit her.